It’s important to know that babies/children are naturally curious and they easily give into temptation. For children under 2 years of age we find eliminating the appeal is the best way to redirect the child’s attention. If it’s too late and they are already moving toward something unacceptable say no, but use a calm voice first. A firm voice can appear to gain the desired response, but your child is really reacting to your emotions. Be consistent and try a calm voice.
You are the parent and the one in control, although I know it doesn’t always feel that way. Try to be clear when disciplining and explain why you are doing what you are and what you expect going forward. Get in the habbit and start doing this early on in your child’s life. Never hit, spank, or slap a child of any age. The message you are sending is that physical behavior is acceptable.
Our children are developing at these young ages and can’t make the connection or difference between their behavior and physical punishment. Pain will be the only emotion they feel.
So please don’t forget that children learn by what you do. Be a role-model and set the right standards.
Please share with us your discipline techniques. Also, there are several resources out there to help guide us parents. Even if you are on your 2nd, 3rd and so on you too can learn something helpful.
If you have any questions feel free to email me. ~Lisa
